Tuesday, October 8, 2013

Steeling Myself

I didn’t expect to meet anyone, really.  I was shocked to my core when I realized without even trying someone had gotten such a strong hold on me.  Was it- is it- because I’ve been alone so long? In a way, so has he. Is that why we felt like the opposite sides of the same coin?

I’m feeling very tense and heavy about having feelings for a married man, regardless of him being so unhappy in his marriage.  I don’t want to feel this way.  I have been reading a lot about how to stop these feelings.  I only know that it was so unexpected my armour wasn’t up.  I didn’t even notice he had made it passed, and now it feels almost too late.  Why almost?  I need to get over him.  I can’t and I won’t be a factor in his marriage and how it goes. I don’t know if I could survive him staying with her and still caring.


So now I am trying not to care.  I am trying to build up my armour now, cutting him out piece by piece. I am noticing there is a bit less of me every time I do it.  But I need to. 

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